“All we need is a tent”: Umm Maher’s fight for shelter in war-torn Gaza

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Umm Maher sits in a wheelchair by the gate of Al-Aqsa Hospital in central Gaza, where she has taken refuge after IDF airstrikes destroyed her family’s tent. 

In August, a drone dropped a bomb on Umm Maher’s tent, which she had set up on the street after being displaced multiple times. The blast took the lives of her son and grandson and left her and two other sons with severe injuries. 

For Umm Maher, that tent had become a home for her family, who had been displaced repeatedly since the outbreak of the war in October 2023. After being forced out of their home in Gaza City, they moved first to Deir al-Balah then onto Rafah, and finally to Salah Al-Din Street on the main highway in the Gaza Strip. Now, Umm Maher’s family, like dozens of others in Gaza, has no roof over their heads, wandering the corridors of Al-Aqsa Hospital, which has become an emergency camp for the displaced. Even here, however, they are not safe from the horrors of continued bombing. 

 

My home was beautiful 

My house may have been made of metal, but it was lovely, and it sheltered me and my children. I wish to go back to it, safe and sound.

Fighting back tears, Umm Maher spoke of the home she left behind in Gaza City.

At 64 years old, Umm Maher holds cherished memories of her home where her six sons (now five after one was killed) and her three daughters often visited with their children as well. All she longs for now is to return home and sleep once more in her own bed. “I lived in a beautiful house with my family, who I tried to protect from the bombing,” she added. “We were forced to flee over and over, leaving behind everything, even personal papers and clothes, hoping to return quickly. But the war drags on, now into its second winter, with no shelter, no clothing, and no beds.”

 

The last supper 

Umm Maher vividly remembers the night their tent was bombed. Unable to bear the sweltering heat inside, they were sitting outside eating what, for some, would become their last supper. “We were eating at the tent’s entrance. I told my children to go inside and rest. Suddenly, a drone appeared and dropped a bomb on us.” Her voice faltered. “They killed my son and grandson. I was injured, and so were two of my other sons, with broken bones and shrapnel wounds.” 

Umm Maher still has shrapnel embedded in her hand, which presses against the nerves, causing unrelenting pain. “The doctors can do nothing for me. They have no resources here,” she said. “All I wish is for my sons and I to be treated properly. But with so many injured, care is scarce, and we are left to suffer.” 

In Gaza, access to medical treatment is nearly impossible. Gaza’s healthcare system is on the brink of collapse, with medical teams stretched to breaking point after a year of relentless bombings which have hit hospitals and other medical facilities. 

 

Not just the injuries 

Umm Maher’s pain goes far beyond her shrapnel injuries. Severe joint issues in her legs have forced her to rely on a wheelchair. “Before the war, I could walk,” she shared. “But with the constant displacement, the grief, the tears, and the high blood pressure, I developed clots, leaving me unable to move.” 

 

All we need is a tent 

As the war rages on, Umm Maher’s wish is heartbreakingly simple: a tent for her family to call home. She appeals to those who can help. “We need a tent and financial support to manage through these harsh times. God willing, the war will end, life will return, and we’ll go back to our homes, safe and sound.” 

“We sleep and wake up in fear,” she said in a final plea. “May the world hear our cries, and may they put an end to this endless bloodshed.” And she repeats, with the smallest glimmer of hope: “We need a tent, a place to live, and peace.” 

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This story was made possible thanks to the support of HelpAge network member Juzoor for Health and Social Development; a Palestinian non-governmental organisation dedicated to promoting health as a basic human right. Together with HelpAge, they are working to deliver urgent humanitarian assistance to older people in Gaza. 

 

Read more about HelpAge’s work in Gaza and Lebanon.